tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3069035953690828034.post8278905350996531718..comments2023-07-18T01:26:12.260-07:00Comments on Rebecca_In the Slow Lane: 10 Unexpected Highs of MotherhoodUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3069035953690828034.post-40850099269534711562017-01-12T14:37:47.640-08:002017-01-12T14:37:47.640-08:00Lovely. Thanks for sharing. I especially love the ...Lovely. Thanks for sharing. I especially love the image of a costa straw as a light sabre. XxBooks in the Woods Outdoor Playgrouphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11261239891934976078noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3069035953690828034.post-23280746539977546452017-01-09T13:47:16.850-08:002017-01-09T13:47:16.850-08:00As a mum, my capacity to write in sustained, eloqu...As a mum, my capacity to write in sustained, eloquent prose has vanished. Instead, please find here my motherhood 'highs' in list form:<br />Pre-birth, I remember each Nike trainer unceremoniously shoved down by the side of either thigh as I was wheeled off to give birth. As it happens, my birth 'plan' remained in the side pocket of my overnight bag, unopened.<br />Post-birth: the forgotten wet wipe shoved in a jean pocket,<br /> the ability of a four-year-old to create lightsabers out of skinny fries, my red and green marking pens and straws <br /> from Costa,<br /> the absolute importance of the word "actually" to a four-year-old,<br /> my own ability to comedically 'Shhhh' or talk over my son when he is saying something inappropriate in public,<br /> just how important 'willy', 'poo' and 'wee' are to the vocabulary of a boy - NO MATTER HOW MUCH A MUM TRIES<br /> TO PREVENT IT FROM HAPPENING.<br />Motherhood is awesome btw (thank goodness for abbrievations like this.) There is no other job like it on Earth, actually.<br /> <br /> <br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06274654924680862437noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3069035953690828034.post-6309656009872138542017-01-09T07:43:16.928-08:002017-01-09T07:43:16.928-08:00Thanks Hannah! That's great that motherhood ha...Thanks Hannah! That's great that motherhood has brought you together with new mum and dad friends. Without them, we'd certainly struggle more with the everyday and be totally lost with the big stuff. Being able to laugh with friends about the crappiest of days is the best tonic of all. xxBooks in the Woods Outdoor Playgrouphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11261239891934976078noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3069035953690828034.post-38413306033134527992017-01-09T07:35:28.603-08:002017-01-09T07:35:28.603-08:00Aw, that's lovely. Yes, you're absolutely...Aw, that's lovely. Yes, you're absolutely right: rediscovering our creativity through our children is a major high. Having grown up with a mother who cherished creativity (;-)) I have to admit that I was looking forward to afternoons spent with PVA glue and glitter, poster paints and singing. So far, the reality is more me trying hard not to interfere with their creativity, with a pack or two of baby wipes at the ready. And I hadn't thought of it like that, but you're right, this post is all about celebrating motherhood, but also womanhood too. Happy 2017 (whatever it brings) xxBooks in the Woods Outdoor Playgrouphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11261239891934976078noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3069035953690828034.post-4288036401320364512017-01-09T03:24:06.109-08:002017-01-09T03:24:06.109-08:00For me, one of the most unanticipated highs - and ...For me, one of the most unanticipated highs - and indeed one of the most gratifying - is friendship; I have made some amazing new friends since becoming a mum. I can honestly say that without my "mum mates" I would not only have gone a bit mad, but would no doubt be a much poorer parent for it too. My pre-kids friendships are of course equally valuable, but there is something about the shared experience of parenting that binds people together in a totally unique way. When I think of all the things I rely on my mum (and dad) mates for, the list is endless; practical advice and support, lending and giving of assorted baby items, entertainment for my children via playdates, babysitting, inspiration and motivation, a sense of identity and belonging and, most importantly for me I think, to help me laugh at myself and keep a sense of perspective when times get tough. Not to mention the all important three c's that currently get me through the day: cake, coffee and a chat. I know motherhood can also be a daunting and lonely time too, and perhaps I've just been really fortunate with my friends, but without them I would definitely not enjoy being a mum as much as I do. PS will post on HP page too! xxxAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03982721139488184881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3069035953690828034.post-6522033416114505462017-01-08T12:40:10.306-08:002017-01-08T12:40:10.306-08:00Lovely. I am reminded of similar things of long ag...Lovely. I am reminded of similar things of long ago, entertaining your brothers and you with stories, music, drama, art and walks. I had no idea that I had any creative cell in me until then. I say that my children changed me and the direction of my life completely even while they demanded all my time and attention. Also, it was the best job I ever had. So, celebrating motherhood is a good new year's resolution. H. H.https://www.blogger.com/profile/12773967335817872818noreply@blogger.com